I was blessed today to share in a lunch with a great soul. We go through life with a lot of things on our plate. We are not meant to have all the answers. We fall into this trap of not accepting this as reality either. It also prevents us from leaning on others for help. Help is seen as a sign if accepting weakness. Who says weakness is bad? I can’t handle my broken family who is trying to put the pieces back together while juggling work, at the same time still determine what kind of woman I want to be and/or the type of boy I want to let in my life, while in the main time determing how I still feed my faith. But thanks to your wonderful story and your vulnerability today Nick, I was reminded through Luke 14 that:
- God humbles to exalt
- Carrying my own cross just leads me closer to him
Lord help me never to forget that my broken roads lead me back to you. You humble only to exalt me. Help me extend a helping hand without expecting anything in return. Help me to better carry my crosses in life and truly are your glory through them. Through my broken roads let me be the salt of the earth and light of the world.
Ubuntu
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Dear World,
I have been gone for a while but I am back. I am still continuing that journey of finding me but for now, at least I know who am not.
Ubuntu
I am at a point in life where finding my vocation and ad-vocation is really all that clutters my mind. I learned that my vocation is my underline calling; it is my purpose on earth. My ad-vocation is the practical thing(s) I do to fulfill my vocation. But have you ever been caught between the fear of vocation versus ad-vocation versus remuneration? It just feels like those three don’t play well together. I want the full trio not just a duo. However, every single day and the circumstances it brings pulls me towards the duo rather than the trio. Lord knows I need his help. Clarity is hard to find especially from where I stand.
Can a duo lead me to a trio? Can the combination of ad-vocation and remuneration lead to my vocation? Or can the combination of vocation and ad-vocation lead me to remuneration? I find myself in search of me and today, in honor Waste Land and the pickers of Jardim Gramacho, I begin my journey in hopes of finding my trio.
~Ubuntu~
You never know where life leads. Trying to break off and get out of one’s comfort zone is always very scary. For those like me, comfort is all we know. At 21, trying to move away from comfort is still difficult. But fear is only false evidence appearing real and forgetting that everything is alright. Take as many little steps as you can to be comfortable enough when getting out of your comfort zone. Don’t let the fast pace of the world and pressure from friends intimidate you. Most importantly, never throw out your core beliefs and/or ever change who you are when taking steps out of your comfort zone. Being true to ones self is as simple as accepting who you are in the reflection of your own eyes and not in the opinions nor descriptions of others. The world is an empty canvas for us to paint over. Let’s get out of our comfort zones and begin painting on the canvases of the world.
Signing off work: Ubuntu
Bear with me for a second. I think I am in a love phase this week. I have been contemplating a lot about relationships and boys and what not. I found this picture below and I loved it.
However, I have come to realize that only girls post things like this on their walls or social media sites. So I wanted to ask the males gender (young boys, men, father’s,etc), What do you look for in love and relationships? Would you agree with the picture above as well or would you have to reword it to sound less emotional. I an simply Just trying to figure why pictures like this appeal more so to women rather than men? Please females feel to to give me your opinions as well.
Signing off world: Ubuntu
As I contemplated on a lot of things that have been going through my mind, I realized that my thoughts could be summed up into two categories; Job and Love.
At age 20, I have come to the realization that most of my conversations and thoughts are either about love and/or jobs. I have been trying to figure out what that is. Let’s begin with jobs.
I am a 20 year old senior in college with friends who are all about to graduate. So I guess the topic of what is next after college is all on our raider. A lot of friends have been blessed and have all been offered jobs or acceptance to graduate school. However, I am still on this journey of searching. What am searching for, I really can’t tell you.
My search, if I really had to examine It, is to find my vocation/calling. My friends know I can get the jobs they are being offered. They know I can work for any company I want. However, I know that my heart wants to make a difference wherever I work. I want to be impactfull. I am just waiting for the Lord to translate my passion into a humanly tangible career. My vocation/calling brings me to the 2nd thing in my 20`s; love.
This topic of love (relationships) had never been on my raider until I celebrated my 20th birthday. I have never made the topics of liking boys or getting in relationships a focus of mine. Yes I liked a couple of guys in high school But never told them nor was I even interested in entertaining the idea of a relationship. However that all apparently changes when one enters the 20`s.
I have realized that with my friends, the updates in our personal are mostly consumed by the discussion of finding love. It never use to be like That in our teens. I on the other, have seen myself entertaining relationship ideas and partaking in these discussions. However, the entertainment of this idea stays in my head and never do I act upon it. I am also on a search of figuring out why.
My hesitation to not acting upon this idea, I think, is because of fear. Not fear of rejection or failure. I think my fear stems from the fact that I want to pray for my soul mate before acting upon the idea of a relationship. I think I fear that I would fail in praying and just be immersed in this fasade of just having a significant other. I also think that my real hesitation stems from my own fault of over thinking and hoping for a utopian significant other.
Love and jobs are both classified under vocations. So I pray that I find my vocation that enables me to impact the world, to draw closer to Christ, to work hard, love selflessly and to grow into a beautiful swan (my ideal self).
Signing off world: Ubuntu